Tonight the final Two Bachelorettes, who are still Bachelorettes, came back to bitch out Brad.I don’t get why they’re arguing with him. He’s not wrong not to have fallen in love. He’s not wrong to have not told them – that’s the premise of the show that they all signed up for, for goodness sake. It’s not wrong that he dated them and then decided he didn’t want either.
It’s not ingenuine to see that someone is wonderful and has all of the qualities you are looking for, but you just don’t get the butterflies. It’s not explainable, and they tried to force him to explain.
The whole idea of dating is to try someone on and see if they fit. If they don’t fit, well, you move on. What they do with The Bachelor is accellerate the process by having you date 25 people all at once. If neither of the final two are right for him, why should he have to choose one? Just because they’re on a TV show? That has a history of stringing along the women until they get the boot? I just wonder if that wasn’t his plan all along.
Ladies, have some dignity. He’s just not that into you.
See my comments after the Final Rose Ceremony here.